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The grass is not greener on the other side. Singleness has its pros and cons

LOL white air force 1s. So you like black guys basically. Nothing wrong with that.

Ego is high here 😂

Im guilty of the no face gym pic 😂😂. Ill change that.

I think everyone should have standards. What I can't stand is when someone tries to tell another person they are not worthy enough to have standards, so they should lower them.

AMEN on the talking over you ~ goes both directions. My narc hubs completes my sentences. He started do it because per him "we're just on the same wavelength and we can complete each others' thoughts and sentences and shit." Nevermind that he always managed to complete mine wrong...and I was busy listening to him rather than completing HIS sentences.... Anyhow...men do this too, and I agree it's a red flag whether it's a man OR a woman doing it. On your second point though, negativity. I'm sensitive to my own experience with someone who would likely be diagnosed with NPD if you could get him to get evaluated.... I think we need to be VERY careful red flagging someone b/c they talk poorly about their ex...or their family. Many people that are married to a narc...were led into being married to said narc by narc mums and dads. Or at BEST they considered narc behavior normal because it's what they always knew at home. I'm sensitive to what can turn into victim blaming in this case... Honestly, my husband brought me to the altar fraudulently, pretending to be someone he was not. Were there red flags? Of course. Why didn't I notice them? I was young and inexperienced...never had practice with men, and my narc mom was more worried about her convenience than providing me guidance. I followed all the "wise" advice of my elders at church (BEING the right person is more important than finding the right person, dance with the one that brought you, you will GROW to love him, ignore your emotions and use your brain ~ if he ticks the boxes, he's the one). And you know what? It turned out for shit. I was gaslit into a shell of who I had been prior to the marriage. My kids were used against me, my finances were wasted without my knowledge, my family and friends were turned against me...and I'm NOT supposed to say bad things about my narc hubs? What the hell AM I supposed to say, when asked? I mean, I can admit to being a bit batshit when lied to... I can admit to not having the man-skills to know I was disrespecting him in man-think when I was merely trying to be open and helpful (and I've changed now that I have a better understanding of man-think...I learned about it and get it now...and even empathize with men's challenges with women (!) ). So I've gotten skills and knowledge and changed my behavior, and it's worked with new men. The thing is this old one, the narc? Well he's been a liar since before he had need to lie. The only time I've ever responded poorly to him is when he's been lying or sneaking....not bad news. I've not given him a reason to fear bringing me bad news...I've been supportive and complimentary of his handling of situations...and also stated my concerns honestly and lovingly. HE'D even admit that (and he can say almost nothing good about me these days). SO. NO reason for him to lie, but he does anyway. He has since before we were married...though he hid it until after we'd been married nearly half a year. And he's been lying ever since. In SPITE of the fact I've given him no reason to lie. I feel manipulated, defrauded, and taken/ used by this man. He stopped touching me 10 years ago. He's used the cops, CPS, and psychiatric professionals to abuse me and put the kids in the middle of things. He's spent all the money I saved (for US, not for me alone) when I worked...he did this w/o my knowledge while representing to me that he was not. LYING, again. What the hell do I say about this situation? Any my mom...she is his ardent supporter and flying monkey, because I was the firstborn scapegoat. Like Esau. Because Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated. Over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again she dwelt on this when I was little. So...I'm not sure how I'm supposed to say anything authentically nice about my narc hubs and narc mom. That said, I don't put people down a ton, I'm a woman that's not intimidated by being friends with prettier women (I tend to be the less attractive one most of the time...and from what I can tell by men's responses to me recently I AM quite attractive or alluring or something), I tend to be accepting (so much so that people assume I'm lib and a hippie when I'm not), I connect with people everywhere, my kids can tell me anything ~ BUT are well-behaved. Anyhow. Just wanted to say...THIS red flag may actually be a very legit thing. It may NOT be a red flag at all. It may be truly someone who was abused. DId I have fault? Of course, there were things I could have done better. Did I give it my all? 100%. Have I learned and improved since then? YES. Just not sure what to say to people I date about this whole mess. Because I have a narc hubs and mum...I am red flagged forever, or so it feels. And once the divorce is final, I'll have that baggage to add to it. Divorcee. Something I never thought I'd be, because I took ALL the good, wise advice and meant my vows (otherwise I'd have left as soon as the lie happened, not still be attached to his loser almost 30 years later). So anyhow. HELP!!!! PS ~ That said, it's the only one of the red flags that really hit home for me. PLEASE help me understand how to navigate this one.

The only way is to have a bigger bulge in your pants..... a fatter wallet.💰

Maybe, just maybe she's not as pretty or as smart as she thinks she is and is much more cocky than confident. Just a thought 🤷‍♀️🤔

Thank you ❤

I think you would look great with a balayage hair style from that blonding specialist.

Ohhhh. One more comment. We visited- we may visit it again- some street in the Philippines where it's all shoe stores. They make 'em in the back and sell 'em in the front. Lovely beautiful clean street. When we were there- five years ago?- we were four or five women and two or three men and the women could not have been happier. You're a relationship coach? That's the street of dream dates. Women go crazy on that street. (We were each all married for at least two decades.) Rarely was a shoe over two dollars Canadian. In one store I stood on leather, they traced my feet and I picked up a pair of perfectly fitting Oxfords when we came back- two hours? I'm guessing- three? from casually walking into these stores all along the street on both sides. My wife had jeans with an embroidered design on them and wouldn't you know it, she spotted a hand-made shoe with the same embroidered design on it- only in leather. Just under $2 Canadian.

I will definitely check the second channel but I totally respect privacy. Obviously this channel is for us ( guys) so definitely it is good to re-educate oneself as we can not take things for granted specially when comes to the opposite sex.

You were a server? You worked at Chic Filet? (I've never ate at one.) I never thought of you as an ordinary human. I have dress shoes- the type you hate- from further back than 2001. More like 1967. I had a pair of Broings. I never knew they had a name until this video. Love Crocs. I wear them at home when going to the basement. Easy to slip on. I know some Ukrainians, war refugees, working food service who wear Crocs at work. All day long that's their work footwear.They must be comfortable on hard tile floors. Never heard of Doc Martin's, but that's similar to what I wear. A work boot. Steel toes. Your dad wore work boots? I like your dad already. Okay, this video makes me glad I subscribed. Cuz this is funny. :) From your taste is shoes I would have guessed your husband was a Mississippi gambler with a pencil thin moustache who walks on marble floors and wants his shoes occasionally to match his grandmother's who was born in 1888 on an Amish farm. Loved this. Thanks for posting.

always the man isnt it...never the woman

This is all good advice but you have to know which style fits your face best. Some people look better with longer hair, while some men like myself look better with short tapered side with longer hair on top. A traditional military officer cut. I’ve worn that style since I was in the military. A nice haircut does enhance your looks, regardless of your attractiveness level. But you don’t want to look like you are trying too hard.

Curls for the girls. That’s what I’m rocking

We have definitely raised a bunch of sissies

Finding your own style is crucial. Not saying own style meaning, not caring about standards or what looks good. There's always a middle ground. And as a guy, the bar isn't that high to stand out from the crowd. I love being the best dressed guy in the room, even in the most casual shirt + short outfits. Even by that, I still have my own style. I mainly wear a basic shirt tucked in, Levi's 512 which I also got tailored to my legs, and a pair of rugged, leather laced up boots (Thursday Captains are perfect for these). Add on a fragrance and you're already 99% above everyone else. Girls will have their eyes and nose on you, if you have the social skills to go with it as well. Simple, clean, and rugged is what my style is. Basically, fucking rock 'n' roll without screaming it.

At the moment about 40cm long dark blonde locks with an about 15cm long edged full beard. Love the fluffiness. 😍 For you I could definitely see some water waves.

Good call on the mullet and edgar cuts. They're stupid enough on teenage boys. Grown men with them just look like burnouts or f boys.

My hairstyle is simple. I havent had it cut in about 8 years and honestly I get more compliments on it from women of all ages 😱😁😉

Great list of different hairstyles but why did this feel like just one big Forte Series ad 😂

So Teddy is not a getting a mullet anytime soon 💔

I must have gone to the wrong college.

Onlyfans is demonic. It's so clearly demonic. Demons destroying all involved. Everything about it is literally a attack on the souls of all involved.

When you can't even go a couple sentences with someone trying to give a great first impression without them ghosting you, it is soul crushing. They complain that only f-boys and creeps are going after them, yet they actively avoid the guy who's actually at their level. A girl asked what I was up to and I said that I was relaxing playing a video game because I was working all week. I finally had a free moment and immediately got ghosted

The black girl literally in every question : omg this is super important 😱

lol, guess now i know why a lot of women arent really impressed by how i look. i have objectively highly masculinized facial features (tall, low 2d4d ratio, high shoulder to waist ratio, large jaw, deep voice etc).

Your huge misconception, you are talking about how these actions make a girl feel, not how the actions make a girl feel about you. Leading them astray young one.

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I LOVE straight talk! Good job!

Sometimes I just wish getting laid was easy for men to. It is so distant and unrealistic as a man.

Well, if you look like the guys in the pictures, the hairstyle doesn't really matter...

I was thinking of trying to shape mine into a Crue Cut.

If she’s pretty and attractive believe me she has guys hanging on her all over tte place. If some men don’t approach her because they are intimidated by her, there are dozens more that are not and will talk to her. To get women like this you have to have looks, money and status.

You’re afraid to be creepy by going up to women & asking them out because it IS creepy. That’s not how you meet quality women, you meet them via some prearranged way like through a priest or friends who know you both & can vouch for your characters.

Courtney please don't change your hair style. You look stunning with that incredible look. You can definitely pass as a model hundred percent agreed 💯. My favorite hair style that I'm rocking is a messy curly long hair. It fits me every time any place especially going out surfing with the homies. All this hair style making me wanna change my style now. Awesome video

I know you don't care for it but for the last 37 years I have rocked a flat top. When I worked it made having a helmet on a lot easier../t it still says a lot about who I am.

Most men stay away from women who are described as being a triple threat because they are a triple threat.,

I kno I gotta work on this even with friends

Women aren't emotionally mature/intelligent, none of that, Women are just as likely (if not more likely) as men to spas out and be a karen or whatever. On the other note, my mother is so dead inside that me and my siblings had to learn alternatively how to express any emotion. My brother who is older still hasnt worked it out, I think he's a psychopath to be honest

You know, I’m both sides of the coin in a relationship. Sometimes you have to give the man time to grow in it and or the woman to grow it. If you don’t do that, you’re looking for the person in a glass case to get involved with both sides need time to grow, just my opinion

I do tend to like to wear colorful clothing and logo or text t shirts. Im a truckdriver for a feed company so Im at farms constantly and let me tell you those ladies loooove those bright colored nike t shirts. But seriously though, I find a lot of the way people dress to be bland and boring. Thats just me though! Good advice if you want to look like a casual adult.

Your mom is 40 years older than your dad? Are you adopted?

Yo Princess, 'you rock". Your spot on.. But we live in a multi spherical universe. On the surface all your points are well taken

I one Courtney. How about guys who have sex with a lot of women?? Isn’t that UGLY?!? Why do women love men who have 27 options?! It’s UGLY.

Skin tapers 👌🏾

Braids??? Cornrows??

That ain’t a mullet

It matters for your future husband.High count is disgusting and despicable. I bet you'll never reveal it.